What comes to your mind first when someone says a quickie? You immediately picture two people or yourself with someone in a slightly public spot but discreet going at it hot and heavy. We all have imagined what it would be like to quickly get it on with your partner to spice up the romance. Sometimes, you don’t usually get a lot of alone time and a few minutes is all you’ve got till your flatmate comes back with the groceries. In such situations, a quickie is your go to.
It has some ground rules and it’s important to know them before you jump on to this short-lived train ride. Obviously keeping it under ten minutes is a given.
It’s best to approach the idea directly and start with a lot of dirty talking. Tell your partner what you’ve been wanting to do to with him/ her, tease and fuel their imagination to set the mood right. You can reminisce about one of the old times you both really enjoyed or create a completely new scenario that’s sure to put this session in motion.
Don’t Take Off Everything:
The most exciting part about a quickie is the urgency. Keep some clothes on to remember that as you also don’t want to get too distracted. Your aim is to have fun and pleasure each other as quickly as possible.
Change the Setting:
Don’t do it in your bedroom! Try a car, a friend’s house, or somewhere else you guys feel like, but a change in the surroundings from your usual den will speed things up.
Break the Routine:
As a couple, you may have gotten into a certain routine on how things happen in the bedroom. It’s vital you don’t repeat this routine while attempting a quickie. Leave out the long foreplay and go for sure shot sweet spots that you know work for your partner.
Make Some Noise:
You don’t need to vocally approve or appreciate what your partner is doing with words, but let them know through your moans. It’ll help you both find the right points to focus on so as to reach your destination faster and also enjoy it along the way.
Choosing the Position:
This is no time for experimentation of a new position. Since you guys are on a clock, discuss and select a position that works best for the both of you. While a lot may depend on the location you have picked, it’s a good idea to go for one that helps you to find your rhythm.
Fantasize Through It:
Another good idea to speed things along and make the most of it is imagining you are two completely different individuals in your head could really spice up your mind and sex. You could be two random people who met on a train or a flight and are never going to see each other again or literally anything else that turns you on.
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