New years are for new resolutions. Whether it’s your regular life, or your life in bedroom, it’s time to embark on a hot, steamy journey. Ours was to make more people explore their sex life this year!
At IMBesharam, we not just sell sex toys in India, but we also speak to a lot of customers and hear their desires, confessions and thoughts about how to spice up their sex life. When I read and respond to some of these queries, I realize how sex is such an explored territory for even those of us, who claim to be sexually satisfied. Personally, I think it’s important to explore your body as well as mind, when it comes to erotic pleasures.
I am sure a lot of you made some resolutions this new year, but if you didn’t, well then January is almost over. Here’s a list of some really hot, fun and erotic stuff you can explore this year.
- Oral Sex
This is one of the most harmless and yet intense things to try. A lot of you may have already tried it, but for those of you who haven’t, giving blow jobs to your guy or pleasuring her with your mouth is extremely erotic. It is deeply personal, intimate and fun because there’s so much you can do with your tongue, lips and gentle nibbling of teeth.
For those who feel very safe and secure in their relationships, threesomes are a very exciting way to explore new ways of making love. Each person is different and whether you’re introducing another man or another woman, their pleasure points, triggers, erotic fantasies and activities are going to bring in variety that you didn’t anticipate. So, go on, dive in, the three of you!
- Sex Toys
No matter what your fantasies, fears or insecurities are, there’s always one non-threatening way to explore them. Sex toys are one of the most efficient way to try out new things safely. The only thing you need to be careful is about picking the right material and their cleanliness and maintenance.
- Anal Sex
It may sound scary, but it can be fun. Also, if consensual and gentle, it can be pleasurable not just for the guy but also for the woman. You may want to start with smaller butt plugs, move on to increasing the size gradually, till you can take it skin to skin. Just two precautions – Use a lot of lube and use condoms.
- Watching Sex
Voyeurism is a full-blown kink. Whether it’s watched in porn, or watching others have sex or watching yourselves in the mirror, there’s something raw and appealing about the whole play between two human bodies. So go on, have fun watching porn together to begin with or explore watching two people as a guest, in a threesome.
Ooh! A fan of showing off? It doesn’t matter whether you’re small or large, petite or BBW, or are well-endowed or not, exhibitionism is more to do with taking pride in your ability to be unabashed about pleasure. Just a little caution please. Avoid kids, extremely public places or extremely secluded, unsafe places as well.
- Power Games
Submissive? Dominant? Master-slave relationships? Like to decide what your partner should wear? Or want them to control your orgasms? A submissive male looking to worship a Goddess? Or an Alpha Male looking for a submissive woman? The two letters D-s, of BDSM, are intensely powerful and are a very common fantasy for most people.
- Sensation Play
Ice, Wax, Cold lubes, gentle flames, ticklers, honey, cream, massages, body painting – every single one of them is about the largest erogenous zone of your body. Your skin. The vast canvas thrives on sensation. See them shiver with the cold ice cubes, or quiver with anticipation as they wait for you to lick the icecream off their skin. Sensation play can be very intense and powerful.
- Role Play
I haven’t forgotten the days, when I wanted to be the student and had hots for an imaginary older teacher. Almost all boys in my class have wanted a hot English teacher as well. We all know that doctor that we wish our partners would sometimes playact to be. No matter what your fantasy is, roleplays are a great way to experiment with your fantasy.
- Tease and Denial
Tease and denial is a way of delaying your partner’s pleasure. Go on, use that vibrator on them, or the rabbit and tease them by stopping it, just as they approach an orgasm. Control it with remote or a mobile app for that matter, if that’s what you want. The idea is to make their entire body sing till they finally reach an earth-shattering orgasm.
So, which ones of these activities have you already tried and which ones are you going to try this year? Are there any other new activities that you have on your list? Tell us in the comments and let’s discuss.